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Don’t Settle For Satisfied.

February 10, 2024 Cathleen Zahradnik

“Don’t live carelessly, unthinkingly. Make sure you understand what the Master wants.” Ephesians 5:17 MSG

 Are you settling for satisfied? Satisfied sounds like a good thing, and it is to a point. But is satisfied fulfilled?

Satisfied is content with the current status. Is that you? Is that enough? There was a time in my life when that was me. I was satisfied but within was an unrelenting awareness that there was more. Satisfied may seem like enough, but is it achieving all that you are meant for? I knew that I wasn’t but wasn’t sure what to do next.

Fulfillment results from doing what you were created to do. Fulfillment comes from being the best you. Fulfillment is found in divine potential. That unrelenting awareness began to dissipate as I set out to pursue my purpose and potential.

Doing what is on your task list may seem like enough. When you check off each task you may feel satisfied. I know I do! But are you fulfilled? I knew I was not.

My challenge to you, Dear Friend, is to reach for fulfillment. Don’t settle for satisfied.

Why?

Our cultural proclivity toward productivity will not lead to fulfillment. Think about it. Every productivity guru and time management hack is focused on doing more. But when you do more your goal becomes to do even more. Fit more in. Check more boxes off your task list.

This may lead to satisfaction, but I submit that it is empty satisfaction. Checking boxes off your task list can only lead to fulfillment if you set tasks that line up with God-inspired goals. God-inspired goals flow out of God-designed purpose. Are you lined up with that?

 God didn’t choose you so that you can get more done. He chose you to bear fruit.  John 15:16 says, “You didn’t choose me. I chose you and appointed you to go and bear fruit — fruit that will last.” God’s goals for you are aligned with His eternal purposes. Your temporal achievements are only valuable when they bear fruit for the Kingdom. Losing that perspective leads to a satisfaction that lacks fulfillment. Don’t settle for satisfied. There is so much more!

 Fruitfulness lines up with your purpose and leads you to fulfillment. Fruitfulness is never about producing more. Fruitfulness is about producing more of the right thing. It is about fulfilling purpose.

If a plant produces more leaves and doesn’t yield more fruit it is not fulfilling its purpose. It may look like fruitfulness, but growth without fruit is empty. That’s the kind of growth a good Gardner will prune away to make room for what matters most: Fruit! Perhaps it’s pruning time. What do you think? Cut back the growth that doesn’t matter to make room for growth that does.

 Dear Friend, my desire for you is that you will bear more fruit for the Kingdom. That is the fruit that makes a difference. More leaves will just get in the way of your purpose. You might feel satisfied. It may look good to others, but you may have an unrelenting awareness that it isn’t enough. You will grow and that is good, but don’t settle for satisfied. Go for fruitful growth. You might need to prune some of your “leaves” to make room for fruit, but it will be worth it!

 Key Question: How does fruitfulness lead to fulfillment?

A Scripture to Consider: “Don’t live carelessly, unthinkingly. Make sure you understand what the Master wants.” Ephesians 5:17 MSG

A YES Challenge: Where are you settling for satisfied rather than fulfilled? What one thing can you change today that will move toward greater fulfillment?

Prayer: Father, I don’t want to settle for less than you have for me. I don’t want to settle for satisfied. I want to reach for fulfillment of Your purposes for me. Then I will be fulfilled, content that I am becoming all that I am meant to. My life is Yours. Lead me to the fulfillment You have for me. Amen.

Tags Discovery; Fulfillment; purpose, goals, Time management
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“The LORD had said to Abram, “Leave your native country, your relatives, and your father’s family, and go to the land that I will show you. I will make you into a great nation. I will bless you and make you famous, and you will be a blessing to others. I will bless those who bless you and curse those who treat you with contempt. All the families on earth will be blessed through you.” So Abram departed as the LORD had instructed, and Lot went with him. Abram was seventy-five years old when he left Haran.” Genesis 12:1-4 NLT

 Many of us who follow Christ often struggle with knowing what God is asking of us. At least, I do. Maybe I am alone here, but I think not.

Often, the question is, “God, what are you saying to me?” What I’ve found is that I keep asking the question even when I feel like I have a sense of what God may have spoken. I have an inkling of what God is asking of me. I can see the next step. But I hesitate to take it because I can’t see where that step will lead. I can’t see a clear outcome, so I hesitate. Anyone else?

What I see in the life of Abraham is that he took the step of obedience even when the outcome wasn’t clear. He demonstrated faith and trust in God by acting. He went without knowing because he knew that God said go and had promised to bless him. No detailed action plan with stated outcomes. Just, “Go. And I will bless you.” So, Abraham went.

The thing about Abraham is that he didn’t do that just once.

  • He left Ur.

  • He divided the land with Lot,

  • He went up the mountain prepared to sacrifice Isaac.

He didn’t always do it perfectly. (Ask Sarah or Hagar.) But overall, Abraham demonstrated a life of obedience before clarity. A simple principle. Simple, but not easy.

It seems like Abraham lived a life that had a simple theme: Obey first. Understand after.

I don’t know about you, but I like to understand before I act!

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